Does the mother of the groom wear a boutonniere or corsage?
Yes. The mother of the groom traditionally wears a corsage, like the mother of the bride. Coordinating the two mothers' flowers is a common touch. A wrist corsage protects a delicate dress.
Yes. The mother of the groom traditionally wears a corsage, like the mother of the bride. Coordinating the two mothers' flowers is a common touch. A wrist corsage protects a delicate dress.
Etiquette at a glance
| Traditional flower | Corsage |
|---|---|
| Where & which side | Left side of the chest a few inches below the shoulder, or on the wrist. If the bridal couple has no preference, it's advised to ask both mothers what they'd like. |
| Who usually buys it | For weddings, the couple (or, traditionally, the groom's family) usually covers corsages and boutonnieres as part of the floral budget. Confirm the count with your florist. |
| When it's worn | Hand them out before the ceremony so they can be worn during the processional and in family photos. |
| Modern note | Many couples coordinate (not necessarily identical) flowers for both mothers; ask each what she's comfortable wearing. |
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Alternatives
- Wrist corsage
- A pinned corsage matching the mother of the bride
- No flowers if she prefers
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Wedding flower order - 1 x Corsage for the mother of the groom (wrist or left chest) Note: common wedding norm; confirm style and count with your florist.
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Frequently asked
Does the mother of the groom wear a corsage?
Yes. The mother of the groom traditionally wears a corsage, like the mother of the bride. Coordinating the two mothers' flowers is a common touch. A wrist corsage protects a delicate dress.
Where does the mother of the groom's flower go, and on which side?
Left side of the chest a few inches below the shoulder, or on the wrist. If the bridal couple has no preference, it's advised to ask both mothers what they'd like.
Who pays for the mother of the groom's wedding flowers?
For weddings, the couple (or, traditionally, the groom's family) usually covers corsages and boutonnieres as part of the floral budget. Confirm the count with your florist.
When should the mother of the groom get their boutonniere or corsage?
Hand them out before the ceremony so they can be worn during the processional and in family photos.
What are good alternatives for the mother of the groom?
Common alternatives: Wrist corsage; A pinned corsage matching the mother of the bride; No flowers if she prefers.
Sources & method
The Knot groups Mother of the bride and Mother of the groom together as corsage wearers. The 'ask both mothers what they would like' convention is standard florist guidance reflected across the fetched sources. Fetched 2026-06-19.
Sources: The Knot — Who Gets Wedding Corsages and Boutonnieres
These are common wedding-planning norms, not authoritative rules — modern etiquette is flexible, so ask each recipient their preference and confirm counts with your florist. Last reviewed 2026-06-19.