Does the groom wear a boutonniere or corsage?
Yes. The groom traditionally wears a boutonniere and is the guest of honor among the men. It is often slightly more detailed than the groomsmen's so the groom stands out, though many couples keep them matching.
Yes. The groom traditionally wears a boutonniere and is the guest of honor among the men. It is often slightly more detailed than the groomsmen's so the groom stands out, though many couples keep them matching.
Etiquette at a glance
| Traditional flower | Boutonniere |
|---|---|
| Where & which side | Pinned to the left lapel, slightly above the buttonhole and below the shoulder, following the natural angle of the lapel. Hide the pin behind the lapel so no hardware shows from the front. |
| Who usually buys it | For weddings, the couple (or, traditionally, the groom's family) usually covers corsages and boutonnieres as part of the floral budget. Confirm the count with your florist. |
| When it's worn | Hand them out before the ceremony so they can be worn during the processional and in family photos. |
| Modern note | Anyone in a suit can wear a boutonniere regardless of gender; pick the bloom that coordinates with the party. |
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Alternatives
- A pocket-square boutonniere that slides into the breast pocket (no lapel holes)
- A magnetic boutonniere (avoid near pacemakers or other implanted heart devices)
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Wedding flower order - 1 x Boutonniere for the groom (left lapel) Note: common wedding norm; confirm style and count with your florist.
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Frequently asked
Does the groom wear a boutonniere?
Yes. The groom traditionally wears a boutonniere and is the guest of honor among the men. It is often slightly more detailed than the groomsmen's so the groom stands out, though many couples keep them matching.
Where does the groom's flower go, and on which side?
Pinned to the left lapel, slightly above the buttonhole and below the shoulder, following the natural angle of the lapel. Hide the pin behind the lapel so no hardware shows from the front.
Who pays for the groom's wedding flowers?
For weddings, the couple (or, traditionally, the groom's family) usually covers corsages and boutonnieres as part of the floral budget. Confirm the count with your florist.
When should the groom get their boutonniere or corsage?
Hand them out before the ceremony so they can be worn during the processional and in family photos.
What are good alternatives for the groom?
Common alternatives: A pocket-square boutonniere that slides into the breast pocket (no lapel holes); A magnetic boutonniere (avoid near pacemakers or other implanted heart devices).
Sources & method
The Knot lists the groom first among boutonniere wearers ('the guest of honor traditionally wears a boutonniere', may be slightly different or matching). Left-lapel placement and pocket-square / magnetic alternatives from the Rinlong 2026 guide. Fetched 2026-06-19.
Sources: The Knot — Who Gets Wedding Corsages and Boutonnieres
These are common wedding-planning norms, not authoritative rules — modern etiquette is flexible, so ask each recipient their preference and confirm counts with your florist. Last reviewed 2026-06-19.