Does the father of the groom wear a boutonniere or corsage?
Yes. The father of the groom traditionally wears a boutonniere, usually coordinated with the father of the bride and the rest of the men.
Yes. The father of the groom traditionally wears a boutonniere, usually coordinated with the father of the bride and the rest of the men.
Etiquette at a glance
| Traditional flower | Boutonniere |
|---|---|
| Where & which side | Left lapel, above the buttonhole. Hide the pin behind the lapel for a clean front. |
| Who usually buys it | For weddings, the couple (or, traditionally, the groom's family) usually covers corsages and boutonnieres as part of the floral budget. Confirm the count with your florist. |
| When it's worn | Hand them out before the ceremony so they can be worn during the processional and in family photos. |
| Modern note | Stepfathers and father figures are commonly included as well. |
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Alternatives
- Pocket-square boutonniere
- Matching the father of the bride
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Wedding flower order - 1 x Boutonniere for the father of the groom (left lapel) Note: common wedding norm; confirm style and count with your florist.
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Frequently asked
Does the father of the groom wear a boutonniere?
Yes. The father of the groom traditionally wears a boutonniere, usually coordinated with the father of the bride and the rest of the men.
Where does the father of the groom's flower go, and on which side?
Left lapel, above the buttonhole. Hide the pin behind the lapel for a clean front.
Who pays for the father of the groom's wedding flowers?
For weddings, the couple (or, traditionally, the groom's family) usually covers corsages and boutonnieres as part of the floral budget. Confirm the count with your florist.
When should the father of the groom get their boutonniere or corsage?
Hand them out before the ceremony so they can be worn during the processional and in family photos.
What are good alternatives for the father of the groom?
Common alternatives: Pocket-square boutonniere; Matching the father of the bride.
Sources & method
The Knot groups Father of the bride and Father of the groom together as boutonniere wearers. Fetched 2026-06-19.
Sources: The Knot — Who Gets Wedding Corsages and Boutonnieres
These are common wedding-planning norms, not authoritative rules — modern etiquette is flexible, so ask each recipient their preference and confirm counts with your florist. Last reviewed 2026-06-19.